5 Mistakes Men Make That Run Women Away

You may not have a problem getting the women initially but find out that you’re relationships only last a few months. Here are a couple reasons this may occur.

1. Being Too Easy To Please 

The truth is that women love compliments. They adore being told they’re hot, irresistible and look sexy in our new black mini-dress. But throw out too many niceties too early on, laugh at all of their jokes (even when we both know they’re not funny), and always want to do what they want to do, and they’ll begin to think you’re being insincere. they’ll also think that you’re only trying to achieve one thing: to get into their pants. While that probably is your endgame, coming off like you have no opinion or spine instantly turns you into one of two things: the too-nice guy or the desperate creep — and no woman wants to date either. Instead, make them work for their compliments. Women love a challenge just as much as a man do, and compliments go so much further when she feel she’s actually earned them. This is why “bad guys” get the girls, because their not just throwing out compliments left and right. Sure I know women love to hear these things but as they say too much of anything is a bad thing. So make your compliments have some weight behind them by not giving them 24/7.

2. Being Too Focused On Sex 

Women know you have an endgame with them. In fact, they’d be mightily insulted if you didn’t want to sleep with them after the first date! However, if you rush them or push them into a sex guilt-trip, they’re not going to put out; instead, they’re going to start wondering whether you like them for their personality or for their breasts. If you really like a girl and are interested in forming a long-lasting relationship with her, hold off on the pressure. She’ll let you know when she’s ready — and it will probably be sooner than you think. Oh, and once you’ve had sex with her, all bets are not off. Calling your new date at 2:00 a.m. after a big boozy night out with your buddies when she has an early start the next day for her 6:00 a.m. Pilates session is not a good way to act at the beginning of a relationship. In fact, you can bet your box of condoms that if you continue to do so, she’s going to bitch to her girlfriends about you and then think of the best excuse to let you down gently. If this girl is serious about you, then she’ll want a proper boyfriend, not a Friday night casual sex buddy. Booty calling her shows you’re not serious about her and that you view her as a slut — and no girl wants to think of herself as being treated that way. Don’t worry fellas eventually the two of you will be comfortable enough to where this type of behavior is acceptable. Just be sure not to make the calls or bring it up too soon or force it.

3. Being Possessive Too Soon 

You know what it’s like: You’re sitting at home playing Playstation 3 while your hot new girlfriend is still out drinking with a bunch of her male colleagues. It’s getting late and since you haven’t heard from her for a couple of hours, you try to get hold of her. But you can’t. So you start obsessively calling, texting and stalking her Facebook page. Unfortunately, she’s not going to think it’s cute; she’s going to think it’s creepy. Wait for her to contact you and then listen and nod politely when she regales to you stories about her crazy antics from the night before. Even if you are growing green with envy over the fact that she was hanging with other men, you need to act like she’s entitled to have a life of her own. And if you do this, she’s going to want to spend even more time with you anyway. Oh yeah and get a life of your own, drop the sticks (controller), call up the boys and go have fun yourself. By doing this you won’t be as worried because you’re mind won’t be as idle and thinking about what she’s doing. Guaranteed that when the two of you meet up again you’ll appreciate it a lot more, because you’ve allowed yourself to miss her and not just sit idle and become enraged with jealousy. Time apart is always healthy for any relationship.

4. You’re Cheap

While modern women like to believe they can pay their own bills and can afford their own expensive dinners, some women judge how much a man likes us by how often he pulls out his wallet. Sorry, fellas, no splitting the bill just yet. Of course you don’t have to take her to the snazziest place in the city where a bottle of wine is more than the cost of your weekly rent, but taking her on a date where you pay for her meal(and don’t complain about it), will show her that you’re the sort of man who knows how to take care of a woman. Biologically, they’re drawn to men who can protect and provide for them. While they’re happy to pay every third or fourth date, making them pay up too early sends signals to their brains that you’re not the sort of man we can have a future with. I hear so many stories of cheap men/dates. Some women have even told me that the men expected the woman to pay on the first date. I understand times are changing but I’m an old school, traditional type of guy and feel a man should pay for the first few dates. Especially if he’s the one who asked the woman out. Now ladies this doesn’t mean you can go ahead and order the most expensive item on the menu. Be mindful that maybe he’s not in a position to do that just yet but wants to take you out and get to know you better (on a budget lol.) FYI ladies if you’re feeling him and want to leave a good impression on him offer to pay for half of the dinner. More than likely he’ll decline the offer, if he’s a true man, but then insist that you leave the tip. Usually this is only five dollars or so, even though it’s a small amount this shows him that you’re not just a taker but are willing to contribute as well.

5. Talking About Ex’s

The female brains aren’t wired like ours. They don’t thrive on competition. They don’t think it’s the ultimate challenge to help you get over your ex and get on top of them instead. On the contrary, many women will actually shy away from you if you continue to tell them either how wonderful your ex was, how upset you are that she dumped you, how toxic your old relationship was, or how glad you are to “finally be rid of the bitch.” Instead of being a turn-on, all this ex talk instantly screams that you have way too much baggage for her comfort levels. Not to mention the fact that it’s boring for women to have a man whine on and on about a relationship that doesn’t involve them. Get over it! And if you think you’re still suffering from the dreaded “syndrome ex,” swap dating, dinners and girls for the gym instead. And do this until you can, at least, go a whole week without mentioning the name of your ex.